Hey Mojo,
Our predicaments are/were similar but not the same.

I am dominant and have always been into bondage, ever since a mate found what was a very very old Bondage magazine when I was a kid.

My wife/sub is 6 years my senior and was in a totally vanilla life for 22 years before we got together let alone married.
Now that we have converted here to a sub, she is a bondage freak, heels, stockings, anal sex, submissive the works.
I tell you, Canadian Subs rock!

If your missus is a sub and loves the bondage, you are living the dream of many men.: