Experience: a great point!

I was an "experienced" sub, when I patched things up with someone I loved who had very little experience as a Dom. He was extremely interested when I let Him know my little secret, and I pointed out the best websites and we began to purchase all the things that made us hot...

It became frustrating for us both at times because I laid out too many expectations and tried to force things to move too fast. I expected Him to be where I was in the lifestyle in less than a month. Lesson learned. We stepped back, and decided to communicate and grow together as a D/s couple.

I used to be interested only in Doms who had more than 10 years experience...thinking it wise for my safety, and a heightened experience, yada yada yada. I still believe in knowing how to keep things safe. I never formed any longterm relationships with Doms...I just went away for an occasional weekend session, got my release, went back to my vanilla family life.
But, I found out that if you are willing to take it slow, with respect and patience, amazing things can develop. Experience...at least I don't get to miss it. And yes..He has what it takes to keep me hot and cumming back for more.