Giggles...oh all these thought provoking questions I have found lately, amazing when you read the forums **smiles**
Would you be more content if you were the only sub, or are you really happier being in a three-way relationship? If so, why?
I would definitely be content as the only sub. I would be more than happy to explore the addition of additional sub were it something Sir wanted, but would think that if it were beyond a "scene" basis I would find it terribly difficult to share Sir. Until Sir A_D I would have hard time explaining feeling the commitment and attachment with an o/l relationship. I am all about pleasing him, but it would be difficult to see how I would feel if he wanted another full-time sub
2. When you have no contact with your dom for a while, do you get jealous? Do you think he is concentrating on the other sub?
No, we have been upfront with one another and I felt complete trust or would not have taken his collar. I am honest with him and he allows me tremendous freedom as long as I am respectful of his position.
3. Would you ever consider issuing an ultimatum (“If I can’t be the only one, it has to end.”)?
Hmmmm an ultimatum??? I don't know if I would put it that way, but I would be honest with him, and if the other sub was someone that brought him great joy and pleasure and was what he needed I would ask to be released, as my submissiveness brings me great pleasure, and not sure I would see it the same way being part of a pair of subs...
4. What did you feel when the second (or third etc) sub was brought into the relationship? Or, if you were the second, how did you feel about the first sub?
On a scene basis I would be fine, as a permanent addition to our relationship I would feel hurt I think. It is hard to say though, if it was something that Sir handled in a way that he has handled the rest of our relationship I would at least be considerate of the idea, I would also be honest with him on how I felt
**smiles** perhaps I have danced around as well!
Hugs and licks!
cali