Ok I'm answering this without reading Wolf's answers, because I usually agree with him. Despite my current free status, I have had women submit to me before.

When we fully submit to you, how does it make you feel? What does it do for you?
It gives me a surge of confidence that someone trusts me so much. At the same time, it provokes an equal sense of responsibility. And frankly, if the submission involves something sexual, I do get hard. Very very hard.

What about when we are pleasing? When we disappoint you?
I am more comfortable with simple "pleasing" as opposed to "fully submitting". When I reflect on that, I do wonder if I am a wannabe, because I enjoy it so much. I've not been disappointed yet - though I'm not a hard line guy who wants everything just so. And again, if the pleasing involves something sexual, I do get hard. Very very hard.

When we top from the bottom?
I don't mind being told what the gal wants, but using emotions to try to get your way will always leave me cold and/or confused.

What about if you don't have a current sub/slave?
I don't: I can be patient because I don't want to be the type of dom who has failed relationship after failed relationship. I've had one serious (mostly) online relationship so far, and it didn't work but I know we both learned a lot and are still close friends. If my "next" submissive is as good a choice as my last one, I suspect that will last for a while.

What do you get out of it all? What brings you back for more? Allows you to put up with all the trouble we give you?
The idea that a woman wants to willingly submit to me, yet will still be herself and not a mindless slave, that is probably what I'm looking for. I frequent the chatroom a lot, and it's ALWAYS the fiesty, funny gals who turn me on (in mind and in libido) the most. It's why I'm in there so much - I doubt I'll meet my partner in there, but the (mostly collared already) gals inspire and stimulate me. Yeah, I'll admit that sexiness helps too, which is again where I sometimes wonder if I'm a wannabe. But hey, virtually every BDSM story involves impossibly beautiful people, so maybe everyone thinks that.

Thanks for the questions lily.

Q xx