Quite a hard question when you think about it, thanks for asking lily.

When we fully submit to you, how does it make you feel? What does it do for you?

- It gives me a warm glow that I'm loved that much, & is of course a turn on.

What about when we are pleasing? When we disappoint you?

-When you please, it just fills me with love. On the rare occasions you disappoint, I feel....disappointed. I consider whether a punishment is appropriate, & try to remember that you're doing your best. Unless you're not!
In which case a punishment may be appropriate.

When we top from the bottom?

-I love it. I've always said lisa is sassy & sexy. I think I probably encourage my girls to be honest & speak their mind. Of course there are limits.....

What about if you don't have a current sub/slave?

- N/A at this stage.

What do you get out of it all? What brings you back for more? Allows you to put up with all the trouble we give you?

- What do I get out of it? My greatest reason for living. I love to care for my girls, whether they're my sub or not. To see someone take charge of their life, to learn to love themself & to tell me how they're feeling is darn nice.

Trouble? Oh yeah!

That's what fascinates me- to be able to come up with a way to have someone do things that I want- whether it's something I feel they need to do, or just what I happen to want is a challenge sometimes.

When you get right down to it, to make someone happy is the quickest short cut to your own happiness.

Tojo