The latest story i wrote was like this. I was trying to get it as close to something "real" as possible. However in the end, there was no sex or anything that happened. I'm hesitant to write the next part, mainly because I dont think that I can keep that feeling of the events being realistic once it moves into "sex".

This is definately something I find to be very frustrating. Especially personally as I feel more comfortable writing things that are romantic vs "hot"