I must echo the comments that have been said already.

While I never discuss this, In terms of sex or any time of play, I will for the sake of this answer.

In early 2000, I was severely injured in a car wreck, Four surgeries, and months of PT, and yes, I can walk. The arms work, I just dont bend in the middle as well. There a number of things I no longer can do, that I did before. And our sex life, and Play time sessions changed, just like everything else in our lives had to, to adjust.

But thats the point, If you find, or are already in a relationship, The disablities beyond the obvious physical mechanics ( Things getting hard, or wet as the case maybe) Can all be worked out. All it takes is a little understanding.

Anyone who uses a physical challenge or disability against another, isnt worth the effort. In my POV, such narrow minded people, are on my planet, I will allow them to breathe, but beyond that, They are pushing thier luck.