Hello Zorro and to this site and to the world of BDSM.

There is oodles of information on this site but a good place to start is http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529 'Aesop's tips for Beginners'.

If you were wishing to learn about BDSM then reading the My BDSM Life and Knowledge Base threads are good places to start. If you wish to also relax and just enjoy being in a community of people who are generally fairly happy with their kinky sexual preferences, but also lead real lives, then add the other threads to your reading.

If you wish to ask anything, join in the fun of being here or hope to find a partner here, then get posting. The reason I suggest posting as a way to finding a partner, rather than just posting a personal's ad, is that it gives people a chance to meet the person behind the nickname.

Wishing you a great time as you discover more about this world.

cariad