I'm here to learn. I'm fortunate enough to have a sub that's become my slave and nothing seems to be off limits for her, but she's also my best friend and burises easy. I've never hurt her, but then we've stayed pretty vanilla. I think we're ready to up the stakes a little and I want to learn how to proceed without doing anything perminent other than a few rings.
Just looking at the pictures of all the bound subs it looks like neetness counts.