Well, I am not what one would concsider wimpy. Though I may sometimes come across as unsubmissive, which, if one trly knew me, would realize that it just isn't so.

Actualy, BDSM Tourguide and I had a discussion on our way to lunch about it. I told him that it gets to me sometimes that people consider me unsubmissive because of the way I come across.

Basically, I believe that if you have something to say, then say it. Don't beat around the bush, say what you mean and mean what you say. I don't pull punches when it comes to my opinions. It's the way I was taught. You don't cow down to people just because your opinions differ from someone else's and, in this case, regarless is they are another submissive or dominant.

I am submissive, but I am submissive to one person only right now, and that is the person's collar which I wear. Granted, if we had another dominant training me, not nessisarily to collar, but to get as much perspective as possible, then yes, I would be submissive to that person as well. That is actually another subject we touched on today. The possiblity of having another dominant to help train me, particularly a femal one. Not because he is incapable, but I find that female dominats tend to have a different approach and I figure we could both benefit from her. She may have ideas and ways of doing things that neither of us had thought of before. But, like I said, we talked about it and it is a long way from actually happening.

As for humliation... well I will not say that I can't be humliated, just that no one has found anything to actually do it yet. I am kind of strange that way. I don't get jealous despite my Master has taken on other submissives beside myself and I don't get humliated. Most things I can just shrug off. I have been degraded, yes, which I don't find so bad as it may sound, but I don't get truly, red in the face, humliated.