I have used it for both an online submissive, as well as my live in submissive. In both cases, it did as stated. Establishes control and dominance in the relationship rather nicely.

I have used it more for a training or conditioning tool than as punishment, simply because I tried to use it as a punishment once, and all it did was make her more cheeky, because they enjoyed the control, the Dominance they felt from the activity. I find that if I am going to do punishment, this wasn't the best tool with the submissive I was attempting to punish.

As to why we select what we select for punishment. I will wait to give that info when the letter P comes around.

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