Originally posted by desade9
like what goes on in the mind of a switch ?
Well, wouldn't you have some idea as to what goes on in the mind of a switch...since you've stated in your profile that you are one!

Also, switching doesn't necessarily refer to switching the gender of the person you are submitting to, it refers to finding enjoyment and fulfillment in being both the dominant and the submissive (at different times!).

i do take your point though, the notion of switching is something that i have always found hard to get my head around (not in a negative way).

Anyway, welcome.

lucy