Kelli,

Ben-Wa balls are fun – and are used to strengthen the vaginal muscles. I would never put them, or for that matter anything that does not have cord or some kind of stopper attached to it in, my bottom – Ben Wa balls are made for vaginal use.

As for the but plugs – if you never tried – I would recommend starting at home – and getting used to it, before you decide to go air sealed, for an exciting evening out. Start with the small one and work your way out – ALWAYS using lots of lube.

Somewriter; with all due respect – inflatable but plug is for advanced players – even the smallest but plug will stay in quite nicely – since the sphincter tend to grab that neck like there is no tomorrow