Hi moptop,
That's a clever name, it gives me many exotic visions. Back to the subject at hand, also posted here is a thread that gives you several points to consider when looking for a dominante partner.
The easiest one to consider is the most basic.
If you were not involved in a Dom/sub relationship would this be the person you would like to have share your time.
Or is it just a physical fling
There are several other points to consider too, listed in the thread above.