i was referred here by someone i'd met at another site. at first i was a little intimidated, but only because i am really shy. i honestly can't think of anything off the top of my head that would make new users not want to come back, unless they realized that BDSM isn't something they were looking for.
this site is filled with tons of wonderful welcoming people. so it's definitely not the regulars that are running off the new folk! i know once i was able to get over my initial shyness and actually start posting in threads and visiting in chat, i was surprised at how nice everyone was! minxy is a doll and was the first person to actually welcome me to the site.
i know i haven't been a member here for very long, but i've made lots of good friends in that short time...and have had a lot of fun, both in the forums and in chat. ~grins~ it's official....i'm an addict! so yeah, i'll keep coming back because of the great people. another thing that keeps me coming back is the Forums/Stories. it's easy to get caught up in reading the stories...and even easier to get caught up in the forums!