Just wanted to say, to Tojo really, I've spent a lot of time on the submissiveloving site, and I was particularly grateful to Mistress Steel for her article on Submissive Frenzies. Strong resonance for me there. I certainly recognise the state in myself - and it helps me to balance about my expectations around the relationship itself: I would like him to be the one etc. etc., just as anyone seeking love hopes that this new relationship will be, but I'm not counting on it. I just intend us to enjoy it as much as we can while we're together, and so does he, and we are! Also, I think that finding this community right at this moment is allowing me to spread my frenzy around a bit... I'm sorry if that's a bit of bind for all of you! Let's hope it doesn't last too long.