Please don't be sorry moptop- we're all going through our own stuff, that's what we come here for. To me that's the biggest thing with this place, the freedom to express your own doubts & uncertainties in a pretty darn supportive environment.

Feel free to sit down & say what you want anytime- you're very welcome.

If you have 'personal' stuff to discuss, it's OK to PM a likely candidate.

There's never any guarantees in any relationship, that's for sure- when I married my wife I identified as a sub. She had many a happy time with that- now it doesn't do a thing for me, but luckily the BDSM side of things is/was a very small part of our relationship.


Tojo