The joys of anal

[Flaming_Redhead]

Will the fun of it fade as it goes mainstream? Or will there just be a lot more happy and fulfilled people walking around?

I've always thought anal was pretty mainstream, but I've been shocked to discover that a lot of people have never done it. I love it! The little bit of pain on penetration causes my clit to stand up and my pussy to get extremely wet. I cum faster and harder with anal than vaginal penetration. I don't like the mess factor which happens on occasion, usually from a hard pounding, but I've never tried enemas. Maybe I should...

[ChurchofVirus]

One way to help her relax when trying to warm up to anal is to have her play with her clit/pussy, it'll help her relax and take away focus from the actual anal play.

[Phantome]

I don't like the mess factor which happens on occasion, usually from a hard pounding, but I've never tried enemas. Maybe I should...

You might enjoy having your significant other administer your enema, too. He can hold it in with a butt plug to warm you up, while giving you a nice spanking to entertain you both. *mmmm*
-Phan

[Psynymph]

i use to be terrified of anal sex.....tried it once, when i was really young and it was just an all around bad experience. so that kinda scared me off of it.

communication is key when introducing anything new into your sexual life with another person. you have to be comfortable, especially with something like anal sex. because (for me at least) anal sex is extremely personal. i mean, like the taboo suggests, that "forbidden" place. so it's a big deal, sometimes, when someone is willing to let you err....umm...hehe invade that space so to say.

definitely a warm up is in order. in fact get her to cum a couple good times. and LUBE!!!! then, just like most everyone says, go nice and slow. be patient.

but with me, i had to basically forced into it. because it does hurt, especially the first time. it's a very different, unusual feeling, especially to someone who was hesistant about it to begin with. my Trainer ate me out, fucked me good and hard, then initiated anal play. W/we had discussed it before hand and in a couple different convos. i had my safeword. it hurt, i wanted to cry, and i tried to get away, push Him off. but i didn't say the safeword, so He didn't stop. He coached me through it. and then the pain became that wonderful "ohmygod it hurts so good!" kinda pain. then i thought i was gonna cry from sheer pleasure. it was beyond good. it was great. absolutely....just.....AHHHHH YESSS!!!.

i'm addicted. it hurts still because He only does it occasionally, but i honestly think it's better than vaginal sex.

ok so yeah thats my take on anal sex.....hehe.

[coookie]

I've always thought anal was pretty mainstream, but I've been shocked to discover that a lot of people have never done it. .

I agree with you ... i do not associate anal with bdsm out of my 5 "nilla" girlfriends, only one had not tried it. Now enemas ..well i have not spoken of this but i would be surprised if any of them had tried one.

I too have difficulties with reactions to lube and, not to sound all crude, i have found the best lube is good old fashioned spit ... i am not sure why no one ever recommends this but i find it very effective.

i found the most "comfortable" way of trying anal initially is to lay her flat on her tummy and yes go slow and watch her body for cues to go harder.

Good luck and have fun!!