Quote Originally Posted by rce View Post
Are there anyone here who have good tips on how to convince one's GF to take it anally? We have almost gotten there, but she backed out and won't talk about it anymore.
my advice for dealing with someone that is hesitant is the same as what everyone else is saying. take it slow! build up from fingers and plugs, but always go slow. and if you feel her tensing, don't try to force anything into her. just let her take a deep breath and try to relax again. eventually she will be ready for anal sex.

i'm probably one of the few people out there that doesn't like the whole "take it slow" approach. but that's just me, and how my body reacts to it. no one is the same. i personally just love to be grabbed from behind...pushed across a table...and have a nice hard cock shoved up my tight ass. ~shudders~ yes, there is the initial pain, but it is nothing compared to the pleasure soon to come! and i absolutely love that feeling of being 'taken'.

i agree with what red said! i always cum harder and faster from anal sex. i get lost in it and sometimes even start rattling off with dirty talk if i want it bad enough! ~blushes~ the world could be coming to an end, but if i was getting pounded in the ass at that particular time, i would be oblivious!
Quote Originally Posted by moptop
does anyone else find any negative side-effects like that from enemas? Thanks
the side effects i've felt from enemas have been very minimal. slight cold chills if it is a very large enema...and also depending on the enema's ingredients, there could be cramping of various intensitities. i know both of those side effects are well worth it for me when it comes to being comfortable during anal play. it's so much more enjoyable when you don't have to worry about the mess.

also, enemas can be enjoyable as play. (and no i'm not referring to scat play ~making a face~) for example being forced to hold an enema for a certain amount of time. also, the cramps associated with enemas can be used as part of play too. the pain from the cramps can be mild...all the way up to pretty damn intense! i've found that massaging my tummy during a cramp almost always makes it go away ~nods~ you can also use butt plugs to help control the amount of time you are able to hold an enema.

~glancing up~ boy did i ramble!! ~grin~ sorry bout that!