i use to be terrified of anal sex.....tried it once, when i was really young and it was just an all around bad experience. so that kinda scared me off of it.

communication is key when introducing anything new into your sexual life with another person. you have to be comfortable, especially with something like anal sex. because (for me at least) anal sex is extremely personal. i mean, like the taboo suggests, that "forbidden" place. so it's a big deal, sometimes, when someone is willing to let you err....umm...hehe invade that space so to say.

definitely a warm up is in order. in fact get her to cum a couple good times. and LUBE!!!! then, just like most everyone says, go nice and slow. be patient.

but with me, i had to basically forced into it. because it does hurt, especially the first time. it's a very different, unusual feeling, especially to someone who was hesistant about it to begin with. my Trainer ate me out, fucked me good and hard, then initiated anal play. W/we had discussed it before hand and in a couple different convos. i had my safeword. it hurt, i wanted to cry, and i tried to get away, push Him off. but i didn't say the safeword, so He didn't stop. He coached me through it. and then the pain became that wonderful "ohmygod it hurts so good!" kinda pain. then i thought i was gonna cry from sheer pleasure. it was beyond good. it was great. absolutely....just.....AHHHHH YESSS!!!.

i'm addicted. it hurts still because He only does it occasionally, but i honestly think it's better than vaginal sex.

ok so yeah thats my take on anal sex.....hehe.