Hiya.I'm far from being dominant, but here's my take on the subject:
I think, like Psynymph, that a natural dominant is one who has the innate tendency to dominate in them. However, I personally disagree that a natural dominant necessarily has to be a leader in work, etc, or other forms of daily life. In fact, I might go so far as to say that a large number of innate dominants and submissives project entirely opposite images of themselves at work/school. IMHO, the only thing that separates the natural dominant from the learnt, is that the natural dominant, instinctively yearns to dominate his submissive, and instinctively knows how. I agree that the people who never had dominant tendencies before meeting their partner but still meet the two conditions listed above would be a very grey area, but I'd classify them under natural, still. I would consider the (learnt? unnatural?) dominant as someone who doms to try and satisfy his partner's yearnings, instead of from some need within him.





I'm far from being dominant, but here's my take on the subject:
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