We really like role-playing, and since Sylvie gets embarrassed quite easily out in the real world, it is my duty (and pleasure!) to push that embarrassment into humiliation as often as possible.
Some of our playing needs her co-operation, some of it needs her to be totally unaware of what is going to happen.
Because she/we travel so much, it is easier to 'play' than it would be if we stayed at home. Renting a sleazy motel room, complete with mirrored walls, is easy to do. Without bragging, I can say that Sylvie makes enough money to keep us in toys. When I want to rent such a place, I often drive by a strip of motels first, and pick one that seems likely. I will then phone and book it in the fake name we sometimes use. I don't think I could ever book it in person; I'd be as embarrassed as she would!
If I need the help of a man, I will usually find a cab driver, tell him I'm playing a trick on 'my sister' for her birthday, and ask for his help. Since I'm never going to see him again, it's not too hard. In some cases, I just can't go in and get the motel key, I have to ask the cabbie to do it, and take the payment in with him.
I'm pretty out-going, so it's not too hard to find someone to help. And I look soft, so they don't think I'm some butch girl out looking for trouble. Unlike Sylvie, I don't embarrass too easily, and I can certainly giggle.
Sometimes, I am way over optimistic. While the first part of our weekend went really well, the second did not. It was okay until we had our bath, at which point Sylvie let the water out before I went too far. From then on, it fell apart.
He knees hurt, she was too cold not having clothes on, she wanted something to eat, I was bored not having an equal to talk to, I felt lazy and rude making her do things I could easily do, such as making tea, etc, etc. In other words, we both missed not having our usual relationship, which is easy and relaxed.
So, I gave her the spanking she had been waiting a week for, she allowed me to get a bit closer to her butthole, and we all lived happily ever after - till the next crisis!