I don't see what Islaam and BDSM have to do with each other either. But that is probably because I am not a Muslim. I live every day as both a Christian, and a sub....so it is easy to see the overlap and connections between the two.

It's not a perfect fit. But I try to live each so that neither is in conflict with the other. And for me, the non-sexual aspects of D/s fits very well with how I wish to live my Christian life as well.

I certainly am not trying to make any sweeping, mass conclusions, and I don't think anyone else here is either.

Just as BDSM consists of a million different flavours, so does Christianity.