welcome back, briansmine! ~smiles~ and Happy Halloween to you too!

if you do a little search up there at the top of the page, you will come up with TONS of threads on exactly what you are talking about. bratty/resistant behavior and the effects it has on the Dominant and submissive in the relationship. i know it's seems overplayed, but communication is always the key in situations like this! feel free to start up some new threads!! ask some questions and get some good discussions going! and most of all, enjoy yourself!