In our group who travelled to Rubberball from Sweden a while back we had a guy with severe cerebral palsy in our group. I didn't know him from before but he quickly became very popular. I should point out that he did have two drop dead gorgeous assistants in rubber on the trip with him, which may have helped it along. I saw him whipping various chicks all the time, even though he had trouble even holding the whip. I think it's all down to attitude. Stefans, (his name) attitude was pretty much to go all the way and let it all hang out. It didn't hurt that he was witty and fun to be around. He got plenty of touchy-feely lap-dances on the dance floor. That's more than I got.

I think it's just the same as with everything. In areas you're lacking you have to make it up in some other way. I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I couldn't even begin to understand how life would be like actually being confined in a wheelchair. Good luck all the same.