i don't really wear anything D/s related in bed (i am SUCH a comfort lover in bed!! )..but i do kinda know what you mean about the whole bed time/morning thing. Often, when lying in bed before sleep, i contemplate my submissive status or things i may have done that day in D/s terms; i guess this is natural as the day is often busy and full of 'life' stuff, then suddenly it is quiet and one is alone with one's thoughts. This is probably especially the case when i am undergoing one of my notorious cum dep sessions...i lie and think about what i am doing, why i am doing it, the fact that he continues to use me to cum and um...*sighs*...tis all nice and quite a special time.

*blushes madly*

Roughly the same applies to waking up again, but more a case of the submissiveness kind of re-dawning again - both literally and spiritually. (once the inital slight disappointment that i can't climax for another day wears off! LOL).

sl