Absolutely, Natalie.

ibelong, I'm a sub, I havn't been around here long, but have learnt a great deal in a short time, including understanding that there is no 'right' or 'wrong' way to be. Everyone is different. Everyone is turned on by and attracted to different things. You just have to find the right match.

A sub chooses what is right for them, who they are attracted to, wish to submit to, just as anyone outside of the lifestyle makes choices. And you choose just how much your submission infiltrates your daily life, too. It's just up to you and to how your relationship, with whoever is lucky enough to become your Mistress (or Mistresses), grows.