am i sub or a switch

[Timberwolf]

And for the record I don't think there's anything unnatural about your thoughts. In fact I think you'd find there are many who have asked themselves the same question.

[Valkyrie402]

ibelongtoyou, you are who you are, which makes everything you feel acceptable because they are your feelings. No-one else can tell you what is right or wrong for you - only you can decide that. Whether one is a Dom/me, sub or switch, we all have questions and insecurities to deal with. I agree with everything that has been said by everyone else who has posted a reply here. I hope you find the support and friendship you seek to help you explore your truth. Blessings.