Hi, I've been looking in on this forum for a while but only just noticed this thread. A bit chaotic but that's how creativity happens.

I'm 55, and been turned on by things like ropes and slavery since before I was old enough to understand why grownups made so much fuss about sex. Started mostly by fantasising about submissive roles, but when I got a chance to try it for real I learnt that I'd rather be in control, though I have occasionally enjoyed submitting to the right person.

I've had bedroom subs, part time slaves and 24/7 slaves, and right now I have a LD girlfriend and we're still working out exactly what we will be when we can be together. I can enjoy anything from purely mental domination to thrashing a pain-pig bloody.

I wrote a BDSM novel many years ago when there was no room in publishing for something that was too kinky for the mainstream but wasn't pure porn. My gf has just been reading it and encouraging me to polish off the rust and look for a publisher. If I can think of any specific questions to ask I'll take them to the right part of this forum, but can anyone suggest a place to offer a light-hearted crime novel with lots of hot D/s scenes?