Quote Originally Posted by Timberwolf View Post
"what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else "

I must have missed the meeting where joining another forum meant I had to give up my BDSM Library membership.
it means no such thing ---it means do not use the site to advertise other sites if such information is not requested ----I am a member of many forums and sites ----but I do not PM you to join those sites ----if you want the information of some suggested sites I will be glad to give it to you but by my just PMing you unrequested information ----that is spam ----