The A-Z of BDSM

[cariad]

*checking that Miss maddie is not looking and carefully unfolding the note*

*Fidgets, blushes, looks up at the clock and gives an almost secret nod to Rick, and then returns to looking innocent*

*Wonders if I should point out to dzire that her skirt is falling up as she is tilted backwards*

[Echoes]

oh my...posted in wrong place! I just read aftercare and somehow posted here

[_ID_]

Ok, so it seems I have been nominated to take over the A-Z project. I accepted, and know full well that I am by no means an expert on all subjects BDSM. SOOOO that said, I will rely heavily on the members of the form, ALL members. Mods, Admin, Super Admin, as well as the newbies who just found out what BDSM is!.

So that said, I am going to figure out what subject would be best to start out with. We left off at D, and I will strive to find a suitable subject (domination was what was suggested before, but for some reason there seemed little interest in that).

I figure we can leave the subject open for 2 weeks per letter, and if its a high interest item like aftercare was, well then a full month could be dedicated.

V/R
ID

[annie]

Ok, so it seems I have been nominated to take over the A-Z project. I accepted, and know full well that I am by no means an expert on all subjects BDSM. SOOOO that said, I will rely heavily on the members of the form, ALL members. Mods, Admin, Super Admin, as well as the newbies who just found out what BDSM is!.

So that said, I am going to figure out what subject would be best to start out with. We left off at D, and I will strive to find a suitable subject (domination was what was suggested before, but for some reason there seemed little interest in that).

I figure we can leave the subject open for 2 weeks per letter, and if its a high interest item like aftercare was, well then a full month could be dedicated.

V/R
ID

GREAT to have you here! Can't wait to see what "D" is for....

Just a suggestion but how about "dependency." I know may sound strange... can explain further if i need to though!

Anyhow... congrats on the new job! You will do an awesome job!

[_ID_]

yes, please explain what it is you refer to. dependency on other, dependency on....?

And thanks for the congrats!

ID

[Havensov]

If i could make a sugestion...

D for Demeanor. As in what type of demeanor do you look for in your BDSM partner. Shy, bratty, soft, loud, gothy, innocent, flirty, complacent, stubborn, etc.

Just a thought.

And congrats!

[Guest 91108]

May i add in another... devices.... it seems that not just the common ones but the more elaborate ones that someone new such as myself might wish to know.

[Dragon's muse]

D could also be for "Decorum" as is manners and etiquette in different circumstances

[_ID_]

I was thinking along the lines of Domspace. I think it was breifly discussed in another thread here, will have to work on that. What I am going to strive to do is do a subject that both dom and sub as well as experienced and new can post their thoughts/opinions about.

Though Demeanor, Decorum and Devices are all good ones, cause they can work both ways.

V/R
ID

[annie]

Nevermind! Saw the other thread! *smiles*

[mina]

What about D for "Daddy" or Daddy play?

[DramaKw33n]

This will be very helpful to me in my journey.

[_ID_]

So our A - Z thread grows some... We are now at E for education, please feel free to contribute in the E for education thread!!!

[cariad]

Does that mean it is time to put on our school uniforms again?

[_ID_]

Of course it does, and I had some special chairs made up for all the submissives. The desk is forward, the back of the chair is open, and leans a bit forward, thus causing the ass of each occupant to be throughly exposed.

There is a new uniform item to accompany your outfits as well... NIPPLE CLAMPS!!!

ID

[Havensov]

F.......

Fetish
Furniture
Function
Fanatic
Freedom
Fixtures
Female
Form
Fragrance

Just a few ideas... looking ahead to the next letter.

[_ID_]

I considered fetish, but we have such a great fetish thread going. I didn't know if that would just be a repeat of that thread (even though it would be fun). Also considered fantasy, but wasn't sure what kind of discussion we would get going. Domespace and Education weren't as popular as I had hopped. Perhaps its cause people don't like me being the leader of this... had more interest with maddie. Who knows. Gonna test a theory, and see what kind of response I get on the next one. I would enjoy some more suggestions though.

ID

[lily27]

Floggers, Flogging, Figging, Freedom.....

[violet girl{MM}]

Moving on to G for:
*girls
*guys
*goth
*Gor
and, of couse, gags (!) of all kinds!

[Guest 91108]

Smiles........

Since I was given this area to specialize in for the time being I thought I'd use a G word that has been on my mind for while as my way to cum into the doing of the A-Z of BDSM.

Gore

I hope everyone enjoys the journey..

[Guest 91108]

hrm to drum up readers.. some topics for " I " that you'd like to see ?

[gagged_Louise]

*inventing
*impaling
*introducing (semi-vanilla friends to bdsm)

[Guest 91108]

I really like " *introducing (semi-vanilla friends to bdsm) "
perhaps you ( anyone) would like to pm me a short version of what you think on it?

[cariad]

Can it also include introducing semi-vanilla partners/spouses to BDSM?

cariad

[gagged_Louise]

that seems an obvious thing to me Cariad. Now I haven't had too many occasions to "come out" as a masochist to vanilla friends but I know there's a sort of bdsm buzz and interest, in some sense S&M is more accepted now than it may have been twenty years ago, so I've thought a bit about how to show others what this is about.

[Guest 91108]

cariad i think that would work as well. We've certainly seen a lot of members lately haveing this very situation.

Introducing Semi-Vanilla Partners/Spouses to BDSM

[Havensov]

K-
Karma
Killing the mood
Kill Bill
Kama Sutra
Kiss

L-
Lips
Lust
Lingering
Lingerie
Live-in
Lifestyle
Love
Lollipop
Leash
Lash
Listen

Ok, thats enough for now...

[Guest 91108]

Having a hard time coming up with a topic that is worthy for the letter K.
I've read some in the past looking for suggestions or come back to K at a later date and time.

[cariad]

Knowledge?
Knots?

[Guest 91108]

I had thought of doing knowledge but there's so much posted about the need for knowledge all over the board...
and knots. well the Japanese bondage thread wasn't really appealing to many.

I had thought on a topic with a phrase like
"K for killing the bad Dom/me ego" but i couldn't decide if the people here could keep that a civil discussion while we explored what to do about such a thing.