acissej said,
Before, and after reading this thread the father figure thing really had me thinking a lot- after all it's something that would make a lot of sense and Morrighan was observant to first note it. At the same time though, it just doesn't add up. Her mother died a few years ago and her father has been taking care of her since then, and instead of a few years difference in our ages he is in his fifties; her parents didn't meet until they were in their thirties.And I did question if I saw him as a father figure and if I was looking for someone to repair the damage my father did to me. I don't think that was the case, but it really skeeved me out at first when I realized he was only a few years younger than my father.
Your post was quite positive and helpful acissej. It was from a female like you that I was hoping to hear; someone who was actually in a relationship of this sort. I don't know what my friend and I may end up being to one another long term, but I certainly hope the best for you and your future husband.
Drake.