Well, I guess we're backwards as we really get off on brian putting me in my corset or waist cincher. Very loving to have your sub dress you and pull tight. And it makes me straight and tall and "armor plated" feeling. like wonder woman.
As to your actual question, I'm sure we'd get a little pushy and pull just a bit tighter, just a bit tighter, a little more shall we?... just to hear you squeal a bit, but if it's hurting you too much, too long, then that's not good, not fair, and not taking care of you.
JMHO,
E