I think the hardest part for me is not being able to get really involved in a scene for fear of the kids waking or needing us. We have a 8 year old and 7 month old. At any time the older daughter can come walking into the living room or the baby could wake needing a bottle or change, or whatever else babies need.

So long and involved bondage that takes a while to get out of is kind of out of the question. Also, i really cant go about setting up allot of fun things in other parts of the house, save our bedroom for the same reason. Kind of hard to explain why mommy is dangling form the living room archway.

Don't get me wrong, i love my kids, but they put a damper on fun. And making plans, well... as most parents know, you make the plans for baby sitters and you find yourself just wanting to take advantage of sleeping in together!

Oh well, they will get older soon enough, and we have found a hotel that the rooms have a wall of mirrors near the bed... so it all good in the end....