You remind me of the girl that can be innocent yet dirty, daring yet shy and is still finding her place in this world. With time you shall find it. You do not look strange at all, in fact I find only a number of women can pull off having short hair. You do so rather well.
Whatever else some may think of you in life those here can certainly understand you and your ways. And yes I'm sure you can be a brat at times but that might be part of your charm.