My Introduction

[Widget]

hello and welcome

[ces3]

Hows it going? My wife and I have been dabling in BDSM for a while but we are trying to get more in depth. We both enjoy the lifestyle but my little sub{wife} is reluctent in some ways. We have four amazing children and my sub is shy about being naked for me to view her because although she is only 5' 5" and about 120 to 130lbs. she believes she doesnt look good. Trust me when I say she is far from undesirable, I cant keep my hands off her!!! We would like some ideas on how to overcome this. We are hoping this site and all of you can help us enjoy the lifestyle we want and help us enjoy each other and become closer because of it. Thanks to all!

[Widget]

Welcome to the forums..have fun!!!

[usafmedic22]

USAFMEDIC22:
Real Name: Sabrina
24 y/o
married
white female
5'6
155 lbs
long blonde hair
brown eyes
Maryland, USA
New to the entire BDSM world, will probably end up a switch, about 80% sub. Never explored women, not totally against the idea either. Married, but husband has no idea of my exploration. I will eventually try to bring him in as well. For now I'm just absorbing and exploring.

[RickBulow74]

Hello and welcome to the Forums. If you have any questions, feel free to ask and I am sure all your questions will be answered.

[madame_curio]

Hello! I'm new of course, and shy. And yet rather talkative.

I am married and have recently related my needs for power play to my husband. My husband is a lovely human being in so many ways and we are really very attracted to each other.

My husband traditionally likes to be on the bottom in vanilla sex, but I have recently tapped into his latent desire to dominate. The results blew me away. We have lots more experimenting to do.

Likewise, where I have been dominant in the past, I have now realized that I enjoy being submissive more. My identity is undergoing a transformation now because of it, so my name may change.

I am so excited, I cannot relate the kind of feeling I get from being disciplined. The explicit power relationship adds so much to our existing relationship. I never knew it could all be so deeply fulfilling.

I do tend toward a specific set of fantasies, but I have come here to learn and share in the great creativity involved in BDSM. I'm quite excited.

I explore new ways to play out power relationships in my academic and professional life, and am deeply interested in customs from around the world, hence my name "Curio". It's has a purposely Victorian ring to it-- tongue in cheek of course since I am a "civilized primitive"-- a woman of color. I suppose that's where my name get its comedic appeal.

In any case, as you can see there are checkered historical overtones to my fantasies and I think it adds to the power, protest and taboo. Truth is, very awful and unspeakable things still happen as a result of colonialization.

I think of education as a continuing kind of terrible insidious colonial influence and so as you might guess, I have a number of student/teacher/disciplinarian fantasies. I was also a bit unruly as a schoolgirl so I guess this kind of play continues the psychodrama.

I love mildly forbidden scenarios (that is anything EXCEPT implied realistic violence, incest or age-inappropriate situations-- I guess I'm tame in that those are things that seriously turn me off) rope bondange, odd devices, contraptions, restraints, costumes, multiple penetration sites, smoking, spanking, crops, double dildoes, water, snow, outdoor play, furniture, washing, being washed, curious about ritual piercing, etc. etc. I'm not so into biological waste.

That said, I hope to make some friends and mentors here that may be able to guide me in the right direction.

Ciao!

M.C.

[moptop]

Wow! there are so many new people coming on to this site all the time, it is amazing! Welcome, every one of you. I've only been around about a month, and I'm enjoying every second of it, wealth of info, everyone open to any questions you have, and lots of fun.

My play name is Nameko I am Japanese and my husband, Namekun, is American. We have experience in Tokyo with BSDM play but are new to the US. We are both submisive maso. We need advice about this site.

Nameko

Nameko, Namekun - I'm not sure what advice you are asking for, if you are looking to meet people, try the personal ads section; if you have any specific questions, try the knowledge base: you can post specific questions there, as well as there being lots of information already in the posts. Other things - well, I recommend lots of browsing threads, and then don't be afraid to post questions you may have, you will find everyone truly willing and ready to be helpful.

That advice of course holds true for everyone!

[Jeryko]

Jeryko:
Real Name: Jay
26 y/o
married
white male
6'6 (1,98 m)
182 lbs (83 kg)
short-shaved blonde hair
blue/grey eyes
Germany
Switch; 75% Sub ; Trying out almost everything with my wife, we like experimenting. At the moment, we're trying to insert hands into each other ...
Looking forward to participating in discussions here... c ya all.

Jay

[Widget]

Welcome, Take a look around the forum and I am sure you going to find a lot of interesting things to read and learn. Make sure to check out the knowledge base and My bdsm life.

[violet_star7]

hello, just though i'd introduce myself. i'm new to the lifestyle, just learning and exploring so far. i look forward to getting to know some of you better.
~violet

[MrDom]

welcome violet_star7



MrDom

[Sin]

Jumped on this site today, but active in the style for a long time.
Hi all

[RickBulow74]

Hello and welcome to all newcomers. I hope you enjoy your visit in the Forums and if you have any questions, feel free to ask.

[Northern.Chill]

Hello everyone, my name is Northern.Chill and I'm from Ontario, Canada.
I've been lightly involved in the lifestyle for a few years, but always want more than my situation permits. I have a very active imagination, and I'm a big fan of solo-play (as that's usually all I can get). I am here to talk, to learn, to get new ideas, and to make new relationships.
Drop me a line, I'd love to hear from you!

[Charlie Brown 169]

Welcome Northern I am relatively new too but would love to help you find you way.

[Charlie Brown 169]

Hi Violet welcome, you will enjoy you time and expereinces here. I amfairly new too, but will be pleased to help you find your way..

[browny]

Hey all, im browny. As you can see i've been a member for about 3 months but have just now decided to become a bit more active here.

Im a newborn in terms of this life style but would definately like to make it a part of my current life. Though im not yet ready to commit fully as many of you have.

I look forward to getting to know you all and discover more of this lifestyle, as well as myself hopefully.

[Echoes]

welcoming everyone!

[Guest 91108]

Hello to all the new People.

[Koka]

Hi everybody from cold and windy Indiana

[Curious_1]

Hello Koka!
To one Hoosier from another, welcome to the forums. Have a great time exploring. Be sure to stop in the chatroom and say hi!

Curi

[Curious_1]

Hello and Welcome browny!

Enjoy exploring the forums and stop in the chatroom too!

Curi

[Ghostship]

Hi, all. Been reading the stories here for ages but for some reason never got around to joining the forum before. Based in central London.

[Curious_1]

Hello and Welcome Ghostship!

You started here like a lot of us by reading in the library. You will find the forums very informative and fun too. Please stop in the chatroom and say hello!

Curi

[Ghostship]

Thanks, Curious, will do. Just added a photo and msn address to my profile as well.

[caroline]

First I would like to say what a wonderful site this is. I feel like a kid in a toy store or candy store (I an not sure how the saying goes). The stories are great and the forum is very informative. Some pictures would be nice but I have not finished exploring. Thank you for this fantastic site.

I thought I would tell everyone a little about myself. I am a wannabe. I don’t live the lifestyle. I am not even close but I find it so exciting it scares me. This all started about a year ago when my husband was telling me that he has a fantasy about me cuckolding him with a black man. He tells me he does not want to do it for real but he finds the idea of watching me in bed with a black man very exciting. I let him know that there is no way that this will ever happen but that I am intrigued by his fantasy. He then shows me some Cuckolding chat rooms and forums sites. To be honest I never heard of Cuckolding before so I look around and try the chat rooms. Before long I find the theme behind this is for the husband to be humiliated and the wife to get the big black dick she craves (sounds like a male fantasy). But there is also another theme and that is the wife is turned into a whore (not always). This is the part that caught my attention. Before long I am in the chat rooms roll playing the part of a MWF whom is collared, impregnated and owned by a black man. The problem with this is that it does not go far enough for me. I also need to be tortured, whipped and humiliated.

I want to stop here a moment and explain one of the two things that scare me about this lifestyle. While in a chat room I meet “Black Master”. Some how he knew all right words. He told me that I was submissive and need someone to take control of my life. WOW it sounds silly but he got right to the heart of the matter. Over the next 20 minutes he was saying all the right things to me. He had me wet and shaking with excitement. Then we found out that we were just a few blocks from one and other. He gave me orders to meet him at a cocktail lounge just a few blocks from were I was when I got off work (yes, I was doing this at work). Oh my god, I was so excited I could not work even if I wanted to. At 5:00PM I ran out of the building as fast as my high heels would let me. When I got a block away from the cocktail lounge the brain on my shoulders started to take over from the one between my legs. Was I crazy? This guy could be a nut. He could be loaded with STD’s. He could ruin my life and maybe end it. I reluctantly when home. I have had many fantasies since then about what would have happened if I did meet him and they resulted in many powerful orgasms. I would love to write about them but this is already too long. The bottom line is that it would be so easy for me to become someone’s sex slave and become trapped as one. I am not so sure that is what I want. Fantasies are nice but reality is a little different. I am not sure that I would want my husband to be my full time master either. I have not told my husband about this because I am afraid he would encourage it. I am caught between wanting to be a sex slave (the nastier the better) and being a normal women.

Sorry for the side step there but I thought it was necessary. What I did discover was that I was really into BDSM and I am very submissive. My limits or the things that really turn me off are scat, snuff and children. Everything else is very exciting or open for discussion.

I am afraid this has gone on too long. I will try to write more in the future.

Thanks for listening.

[his_delilah (GS)]

Hi,

I'm Sweet19. 19-year-old student from the Netherlands.
I have had secret BDSM-fantasies for a long time and my current boyfriend makes me feel so comfortable, I feel free to share these fantasies with him. He had to get kind of used to it, but now he likes it as much as I do.
It's not a life style of mine. I like my freedom in 'normal' life, but I like to be submissive in the bedroom. What I like the most about BDSM is that I know that he's turned on by me, while I pretend to be such an innocent girl.
And to share this secret with him, when we're in public, is just exciting.

And... I have to admit, I just love the cloths, the leather, the corsets, the shoes.

I've been welcomed very nicely by some of you in the chatroom. Just want to thank you all for being so kind.

O well, I can also ask no: what's the academy? Because I can't get in there with my username and password. And I'm really curious.

Greetings,
Sweet19

[slavelan]

Salutation to Masters and Mistresses

I am a new recruit reporting for inspection. I am new and curious about BDSM and would like to receive training. I promise to obey instructions and orders.

slavelan@hotmail.com

Your obedient slave,
slavelan

[amandaserve]

Hello,

I am a fairly new author. I have written one story on here and had it submitted. Reviews were kind of poor. I am not sure I would call it 'constructive feedback' and it was only two people.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/s...p?storyid=4975

Still, I think the story stands as it was advertised. I can't expect to please everyone, and never set out too.

I am currently working on a much longer story, which I call "Best Springer Ever". It basically chronicles a family starting off 'normal' and on their journey to end up as being the stars of the "Best Jerry Springer Episode Ever!"

I am up to chapter 17 and got a little writers block.

So I decided to join the forum and see what all the hub bub was about and maybe inspire myself.

[SauvagePouline]

Hello! I'm here.... some of you may know me, from another name. hell some of you may have met me. I won't be on often, cuz im uber busy. But i have so many questions that come up and i miss having somewhere to ask them without worrying about judgement. Sooo HERE I AM!

I'm Teni, WNY, age 20, fem sub, student at university... I have a b/f (dom?) who i dont expect will be joining but hes quite wonderful.


anyways. i must go to work. bye y'all! see ya around

Teni