Ok, i guess this is one of those things that makes me a bit different due to my upbringing. My patents know what I'm into, and my vanilla friends I'm the one they come to with kinky questions. So i don't hide that side from my friends or family. So... On both MySpace you can find me under IMP... and MyDungeonSpace you can find me under HavenSOV.
As for phishing... i don't give out anything to anyone... I maybe a tech, but i don't even use my cards on line. and passwords... well, about the only time i would be screwed for that is if someone stole my plampilot, i have a different password for each account i have but i keep them there but not with user names... add that i rotate and change passwords every month or so...
Its funny though, to find a web page, and then to call in an order. I always get "Well sir, if you found it on the website, why don't you order it there?" usual responce... "Because i like the human interaction" which really throws them for a loop.