I really appreciate you all with your comments. It's good to know from experiences.

My sister is in to bdsm, as far as I'm aware of, she has her own sub and not in it with her hubby. He complete knows about it. They have a "Open" relationship (i.e. marriage + polygamy). I don't think I could ever do that, but my Dom and I are very monogamous. The longer we're together we like the idea of a threesome or similar, but after much talking realize it will more than likely occur.

Getting back to on topic: My siblings and I have all concluded that sex is pretty much a genetic addiction in my family since all of us just LURV it. My brother, I guess, wants to be in a d/s relationship, but hasn't found the right girl yet. My sister is the one who introduced me to bdsm in the first place. She's extremely knowledgeable but I think it's really weird if I ever told her. My brother and best friend knows while my mom doesn't. I think she has ideas , but no confirmation.

I just posted the thread since I was a little worried on reaction.

He uses "the voice" when it comes to us in public or "the look" that says you're in trouble or stop that.

Please keep posting though. I'd love to know past experiences and such. It helps get an idea of how I should react if something might occur.

Again, I really appreciate it.


(See attempt to prevent deadening of thread :-P)