It's not stupid... but I wonder about that- I mean, wouldn't truly submissive behavior also account for acting as submissive even to an amateur dom who makes you want to tear your hair out in frustration because you could do laps around him/her?
Ah, being First Slave, or First Wife, or whatever the term for the major domo of the harem does sound appealing as a control thing, but isn't that more of an indication of being a switch in nature?
Unsure.