Hey I'm Jai,

Like so many others I've been looking around for ages and thought it was about time I showed my face. I really like the atmosphere here, everyone is quite friendly and welcoming and it is nice to feel that way with a group of people you don't really know.

Not much to say about me really, I'm 22 and I am a Uni Student studying Product Design. I've kinda always liked the idea of BDSM but have only ever practised/experimented it on myself and the odd occasional kinky night with a girlfriend. I would by no means consider it as a lifestyle thing for me and I wouldn't ever want it to be, I don't think. More just a bit of fun and an extreme turn on.

I wouldn't have joined even, if it wasn't for the fact that I read some threads and find myself in sheer frustration at not being able to put my point of view across, especially when to me my idea seems glaringly obvious and no one has said it.

Anyway thats enough for now. I'm sure you will here more from me soon