Although, I did read a rather gruesome story about horny zombies in the Library the other day.....

Anyway, I was a Psych Major in College, until my Junior year, when in order to pass the classes, all I had to do was "agree" with and mimic my Professors' opinions (aka professional certainty). Well, needless to say, I did not, could not, and dropped out of college until I could find my true calling, because the Professors were all obviously and idiotically (in my humble opinion!) quite wrong! Psychological answers are, and always have been subjective. Just like the question in this thread- Nature vs. Nurture.

So far, nobody has approached the subject of "Switches". How does one explain that away? Or, how about all of us subs in here that are extremely agressive/ dominant in real life, but submissive in BDSM? It's almost the same as being a Switch. Now, the explanation for this query, perhaps, lies in the acceptance of what Woodsman's Game said:

I have come to the conclusion that human behavior in all aspects is both inate (genetic) and learned.
Society (nurturing) has taught us men/women to succeed in real life no matter what it takes, even to the point of being aggressive, or dominent. But in fun time world, our natural tendencies come to the forefront.....

Although, all in all, as much as I WANT to be a very good sub, at times I simply cannot let go of my "professional" personality, and this wreaks havoc in the bedroom with my Dom.....*boohoo* just ask him, we've been "on the outs"/ confused/ fighting for the last 3 days! And the guy can't figure out what the Hell to do with a rebellious slave......poor Master!