I first came out of curiosity. A woman on another forum wrote an excellent, personal piece about her realization that even though she is commanding in R/l, when it comes to her sex life, she wants more domination. Through her I found words for what I was feeling.

So I came to read and learn. (I don't like chat rooms, no offense, can't follow the conversations) But I stayed because the information was more than I'd hoped, the people are friendly enough, but give well thought out answers and intelligent responses (mainly, haven't noticed any negative).

I also stayed because my friend and Sir, Wolfscout. It's worked well for us as we continue to learn...