I agree completely with Valkirie, dominance is more often a state of mind than a physical force. Just because he's on top doesn't necessarily mean he's in charge, and visa versa.

"Normal" human intercourse (as I have stated somewhere else in this forum) requires the woman to assume a submissive position and the act itself has a semblance of violence. For the male to achieve orgasm he must thrust hard and fast into the female.
Well, Game, this is where I don't feel you're entirely correct.

The simplest way I've found to 'dominate' sexually is to be literally on top. Sitting astride my partner, thrusting myself down onto his penis. It's put me in complete control of how fast and hard things get, and it's not at all difficult for us both to achieve a climax. It's fun for change too -- for me to 'take him'.

Among femdom circles, I believe anal sex and/or 'milking' is what's often practiced. My understanding is anal sex is a huge turn on for a many heterosexual men -- apparently it's got something to do with the pressure it exerts on the prostate. Milking, is just what the name suggests. Usually, the male would be down on all fours, and the woman behind him, but obviously it could be fun in any position. Again, it's the attitude of the players, and not necessarily the play, that makes her the 'dominant'.

So, Woodsman might be seeing another side to you soon?

Alex.