My Introduction

[redEva]

and a special warm welcome to Raine! Be prepared to be swamped by mail, we are a bit short on Dommes here , and just BTW – do write some, we are low on supply in F/m genre too!

Now that I gave you so much work, glad to have you around and hope to get to know you better

[NCsubmale]

I am really unsure as to what to write, I guess I should start out by saying that I am very happy to be logged on here. My mistress is also logged on as
Raine. I am sure that there are several people in the lifestyle in NC, although I have yet to meet anyone. I am really hoping that we can meet new friends that share a common interest, whether in NC or elsewhere. I guess I should tell that we are considering a full 24/7 type of relationship, although we are somewhat inexperienced in certain areas we have tried many things we have read about in some of the various posts on the different web boards, & it has only brought us closer together. I started out being the top, but realized that it wasn't in me, so we switched, & it has just felt right every since then.

[lilgk]

Hey all, i am a 23 year old submissive female who is new to the lifestyle, trying to learn but finding that although i have the submissive nature i haven't truely accepted it...tried some RT and some online but haven't been broken i guess is the word.

[ToySlaveJim]

I have been a sub for over 20 years to a variety of professional dom's. I have had a few long term relationships and have played as a dom of female slaves. But I really am a male sub in need of being under female control. I love nipple punishment, cock teasing, body worship and humiliation. In humiliation I love when forced to do things in public or in front of other dom's. I love everything about cum eating, golden showers and smothering. I love reading about others humiliation. I look forward to being a toy for others on this forum.
ToySlaveJim

[csr]

Hello to all;

I've read stories on this site for about a year but only just discovered the forums. I'm amazed at the threads i've read--filled with like-minded intelligent individuals sharing their experience. I'm amazed at the quality of the discussions here!

I've been playing for about 4 years now in real life; never tried on-line. I live in Canada, consider myself a submissive male and am definitely a bit of a pain slut. Okay, maybe a lot of one. ;-) My Dominant partner is also my gf of two years... a few years younger, but manages to keep me in line.

Hi to everyone.

[Barton]

Hello csr. The people here are a great group, I am sure that you will enjoy.
Barton.

[lilli]

Hi, been snooping around this site for a while and must say that the selection of stories on here is amazing!

Anyway finally decided to become a member! My name is lilli, and I am most definitely a sub although don't have a lot of years 'practice' but I am only 27 and have a lot of years in front of me!!

This forum seems a very hospitable place and i look forward to getting to know some (or all!! thou with this many members that may be hard!) of you soon.

[bardbin]

I have been an avid reader at the site for more than a year. I enjoy stories of power and dominance and am turned off by excessive violence. I see it as more of a mental thing.

Some of use were meant to be readers and some of us were meant to be writers, unfortunately I am the former.

Does that make me a voyeur?

[erisv]

a better question bardbin would be...do you mind being a voyuer? ~grins impishly~

[chameleon]

...so I've been reading for a while, and reading the stories for a /long/ while.. even written a few here and there. Finally decided it's rude to lurk in someone's house without announcing yourself even if you DO like to lurk in corners and try to blend in.

I guess I'm sort of in a state of flux. Ten years ago, when the Dominas in my playground gave me ten years tops to figure out that I was a Domme in subbie wool, I laughed at them. Respectfully, of course. Somewhere along the line, though, I found myself playing top more and more often. Go figure. One of these days, I really should go look them up and pay up on my lost bet.

I still play on both sides of the fence when I have a chance, and write from either point of view... and maybe someday, I'll write something I'm pleased enough with to submit here. Till then, cheers! Bottoms up!

[sweetmissy]

I'm new here too! I've only posted once or twice and I am normally very quite. Hmmm, let's see..I like the anonymity part of this forum. It helps me speak up and sometimes just sit back and listen- what can I tell you about myself...I teach and I'm finishing my doctorate. I write a lot. Excuse my improper grammar and punctuation but, as of now, I am not on the proverbial "clock." I am new to BDSM scene- And having one of those roller coaster transitions which has been affected by discovering my "true" nature. I am in my mid-thirties, very physically fit, buxom, enjoy outdoor sports including bikes, hiking and swimming and or course I am an AVID reader. I teach the classics (literature) and love music- all kinds-
BDSM preferences- haven't really had any super, expertise, experiences yet other than a good spanking and tie up- Well, that's me-

[tentowin]

Always been interested in the control aspect of bondage, for as long as I can remember. Not much interested in the pain part though. Wrote a few stories a few years back and just a few days ago found that four of them were published on this website. None of the reviews said that my stories were awful, so I thought that maybe I would write a few more. Personally, I like stories about men tying women, women tying other women, or occassionally a man being tied up by a woman. Ordinarily I prefer it to be erotic consensual bondage. Anyway, I'm glad to be a member.

[sweetplymate]

finally got an account that will allow me to stay logged on long enough to post i'm new to the scene, my master led me to this board as a place for me to get information and learn as well as ask questions and the such. although i have read in a lot of the fem/sub posts who are also new to the scene about struggling with their new found identities in life, i find myself falling rather comfortably into mine...i finally feel like me so to speak and am happier than i have ever been. not to say there arent challenges ahead for me but i look forward to them as i feel without a challenge of some sort, no matter what your role, life would get quite dull and boring. i am of an old school mindset that any relationship should be passionate and symbiotic and i have finally found one that is....where i am an equal partner and contributor. i look forward to reading lots and getting ideas from you all...feel free to say hi...i'm quite friendly and would enjoy the conversation!

[myri_SN]

i have been reading the stories on this site for years, had a username once but can't remember the password it seems as i dont manage to log in anymore. now i tried to read an article on the dungeons and it said i need to log in. so i signed up again. now i can access the forums but still not the dungeons, keeps asking me to log in over and over agin so i have given up for now.

meow

oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK.
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is.

[Sailor861]

Hello:

Well, after a couple of months in the library chatroom, I thought I should formally introduce myself. I have about 35 years of active and passive interest and experience in BDSM and have recently embarked on a bondage-fiction writing hobby which has attracted moderate interest in male and female readers. I have written and revised about 50 stories -- 10 long and 40 serials -- in recent months and most have been well received by readers.

Now, I am seeking a submissive female for online training, rpgs, dress code adherence and someone to share my story-writing interests and activities. Those subs who are familiar with my work know where my bondage interests lie. My heroines are generally crafted as bright, determined, resourceful women in their 30s or 40s who, by fate or free will, find themselves in a multitude of perilous or semi-perilous situations -- and in steel bondage -- and who must rely on their resources and wits to engineer escape for themselves. The plots are believable, the settings are everyday and well-researched but the adventures themselves are, I hope, enthralling.

I am looking for a sub with whom I can share my fantasies and in so doing satisfy her submissive self-expression needs. I believe that when a submissive turns over her submissive side to her selected Dom that it becomes the Dom's responsibility to keep it. I have had a couple of rewarding, but all-too-short online experiences already with female subs and I look forward to continuing these pleasant, mutually rewarding times with a special person. Will it be you?

I am in the chatroom nearly every day and I look forward to any and all correspondence.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

[slavelucy]

myri_SN - Glad to see you made it hun! Welcome.

And, Sailor - hey! Good to see you here, now you can tango on the forums as well as the chat room!

sl

[Sailor861]

Thanks, slavelucy. Is that you in the avatar? I could never tango like that!!

[cornelius76]

Hello all,

A quick introduction before crashing...

I spent the last couple of hours browsing these forums, and found them very entertaining, illuminating and liberating. Oh, and v. hot...

I'm a 27 yr old male switch, mostly theoretical (unfortunately ) but for one brilliant experience as a sub. I used to think of my self as purely sub, but seeing all those pictures of women having done all sorts of things to them, I found myself thinking: I would love to do that too.

My interest in bdsm probably goes back to my early teens (first memories anyway), and it took a while to figure them out (not that I thought those thoughts were bad, I liked them fine - just to get from the theoretical to a desire to explore the practical seems to have taken some time).

And that's where I'm at now. I very much look forward to meet, talk to and - if it so works out - play with like minded people - both on and off line - and want to give a big thanks to the operators and moderators of these forums for providing the opportunity to do so.

Anyway, off to bed, grudgingly... But got a 6 AM wake up call.

Later,

Cornelius (the 76 is, well, force of habit).

PS: avatar will follow

[Lord Douche]

oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK.
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is.

Welcome to the forum, myri_SN! I love your avatar Very pretty.
LD

[slavelucy]

Thanks, slavelucy. Is that you in the avatar? I could never tango like that!!

You wern't tangoing with me, you were tangoing with Pandora...remember, you cut in and took her off me!!

sl

[myri_SN]

Welcome to the forum, myri_SN! I love your avatar Very pretty.
LD

ta, wish it was me but me is the one on the profile pic
but love the avi pic cause of the colours and stuff....

[primal sage]

I am new to this site and I would like to say that it is wonderful being in a community with like minded individuals. I look forward to doing a lot of reading and learning as well as posting some of my ideas and experiences.

[star_of_Sage]

Hi, my name is star. i'm the very proud sub of Primal_sage. i have been in the lifestyle a number of years, and have now found happiness with a wonderful Dom. i'm looking forward to going through the site and getting to know it and the members.

[Kalluss]

It's always interesting to consider what to say in these introductions.

So where to begin? I started enjoying the sight of women tied up at an early age. Watching of all things Scooby Doo (daphne looked hot tied and gagged) and Johnny Socko and His Flying Robot. The latter as a japanese import, and every week one of the women would be tied and gagged, and not the fluffy stuff you see in tv normally. Usually a rag stuffed in their mouth with a cover tied on top.

So flash forward some years, high school days. A girlfriend actually ASKED me to tie her up on her bed while we were fooling around. Which was great fun. (I often wonder what happened to her)

Went in the service after that and met some great people who taught me lots of neat stuff. Among which the most important was that women are not nearly as fragile as I was led to believe growing up. It was a great education.

Got out of the service and met a nice woman and settled down. She had some interest in the life that grew as time passed. We don't really play in public, but had some great days at home.

One particular interest of mine is shibari which I've studied on and off for years. In one of the threads on here about favorite toys, someone wrote that they had about 120 ft of rope. I thought about that for a while. I have no idea how I'd tie someone up using only 120 ft. In my closet I probably have around 1500 ft of various kinds, colors and weights.

I like to make my own toys, nothing says love like showing your sub a freshly made flogger you've finally complete just for her.

Fairly soon, I'm going to be ordering some roo hides from OZ and making my first attempt at a bullwhip. If all else fails, they'll make some spiffy equipment if I screw the bull up.

Some of the stories in the library are very good, and kudo's to the authors. I've written three books, which are horror/young adult, numerous horror short stories, and am just getting back to writing erotica which I hope to post on here soon.

A large part of my free time is spent caring for my wife who is chronically ill, and unable to play anymore. Someday perhaps she will, but for now its just memories.

If I've missed something important, ask.

[redEva]

Welcome Kalluss, and thank you for a great intro. It is great to have you on site, hope to read more from you, and my sincerest wishes for fast and full recovery of your wife.

Respectfully

red

[softncomfy2]

Hello,
i'm softncomfy2 i'm a subbie, who has recently dipped her toes into being Domme, it's not as easy as it looks! i could really use some help, its online, and its a Dom who has wanted to explore the sub side of things. i feel very honored that He would chose me to experiment with, but to be honest, i'm a bit lost as to how i should go about this. in person, would be different, but here.......... He is open to anything and says His only limits are mine. so, can anyone help this newly Dommed subbie out?

ps, i am new here, i know, you are so surprised, lol. i am canadian too, the friendly sort.

[SirW]

Hello,
i'm softncomfy2 i'm a subbie, who has recently dipped her toes into being Domme, it's not as easy as it looks! i could really use some help, its online, and its a Dom who has wanted to explore the sub side of things. i feel very honored that He would chose me to experiment with, but to be honest, i'm a bit lost as to how i should go about this. in person, would be different, but here.......... He is open to anything and says His only limits are mine. so, can anyone help this newly Dommed subbie out?

ps, i am new here, i know, you are so surprised, lol. i am canadian too, the friendly sort.

Welcome softncomfy2,

It is always hard to try something new, even more so when you are kinda going against your nature (submissive). But being online it is not impossible. Two thoughts here: Since the on-line is a Dominant (lifestyle or still cyber?) you are probably going to do more of what he wants than initiating things within yourself. This means he is probably going to top from the bottom. This is not necessarily bad, if you both are fine with it. So, since I think most on-line things are mostly play you two can go and enjoy yourself.
What I would do is to make a list with him of the things you two would like to try, remembering the limits of cyber interaction. If he still says he has no limits then find a list on-line and ask him to fill it out.
Then start slow and work mainly with mental things, humiliation, denial, etc...For sure work with orgasm delay and denial. Hard to do many physical things like CBT or waxing since you can't be there to make sure it is safe.
Also, make sure You are doing things You want to do or try (through negotiation of course). This way you are also getting something out of it and not just allowing him to work his submissive fantasy through you.

Good luck.
Have fun.
Again, Welcome.

SirW

p.s. If you wish more info feel free to PM me.

[spankingfan]

red
im new here male switch canada still trying too figure out how works.46 and single.looking for female switch.

[LickmyBoot22]

undefinedI am new to the forums, been using the site for wonderful stories for over a year so I can't believe I never stumbled upon the forums before.
I am a 32 yr old Domme. Not professional, just looking for a 24/7 relationship. Own my business so I work too much but am always able to sneak time away to read the posts here and keep updated on the stories.
I wish there were more F/m information/stories on here. Maybe I should get my juices flowing (pun intended) and write a few myself.
I look forward to being an active participant as I feel I have much to learn. I have had several d/s relationships before but want to move to something more in depth than the usual bedroom play, etc.
Brenda

[Barton]

Welcome. Yes this is a pretty interesting group is'nt it. Join the fun and yes there is a great deal of knowladge here.

Barton