Hi All
I am a male dom; have been as long as I can remember. I have never felt the urge to sub.
My wife is my slave. I met her at a BDSM club ten years ago. I was thirty-nine at the time and she was twenty. She is bisexual. I am heterosexual.
I was giving an exhibition on the diversity and expertise of paddles. When I finished with the sub that was helping me. I asked for volunteers and the luckiest moment of my life walked up on the stage
Through the years, I have had the pleasure and honor of bringing excitement to many women and I think that is the key to being a dom.
I would much rather pleasure the sub than myself. It is really all I think about during an encounter.
A dom must not only have control over the sub (many say the sub actually control’s the dom and that is true to a certain extent) but total control over himself/herself. I have never hurt a sub, more than she wanted to be hurt. I specialize in paddles and clips though. I have never wanted to use implements that have a great potential to cause a lot of damage.
My wife has total faith in my abilities, as she occasionally brings a female lover over for me to pleasure with my toys.
She is responsible for my starting to write BDSM stories. I have been writing stories of all kinds for a long time. She and I have enjoyed reading the stories on this and other sites.
Recently, we were reading a story and I told her I thought the author should have spent a lot more time on the enema scene. She suggested I write a story myself. And.................
Here I am

PS: My first story, Test Subjects, has been posted. I hope some of you enjoy it