Excellent choice, ID. Fun is indeed what it is all about. Sometimes I think people take their submission so seriously, they forget about the fun factor. For me the entire D/S experience is fun. I'm lucky enough to have a Dom who believe if it ain't turning me on, there is not point in doing it. How excellent it is to know that I can only please my Dom by getting totally aroused and on edge. Our kink of course is Orgasm control. He loves to torture me by bringing me to verge an keeping me there . . . for hours . . . sometimes days.
What fun!
fantassy