finally got an account that will allow me to stay logged on long enough to posti'm new to the scene, my master led me to this board as a place for me to get information and learn as well as ask questions and the such. although i have read in a lot of the fem/sub posts who are also new to the scene about struggling with their new found identities in life, i find myself falling rather comfortably into mine...i finally feel like me so to speak and am happier than i have ever been. not to say there arent challenges ahead for me but i look forward to them as i feel without a challenge of some sort, no matter what your role, life would get quite dull and boring. i am of an old school mindset that any relationship should be passionate and symbiotic and i have finally found one that is....where i am an equal partner and contributor. i look forward to reading lots and getting ideas from you all...feel free to say hi...i'm quite friendly and would enjoy the conversation!