Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I fell in love with women who where like my mother, (oooo, such a classic Oedipus, I know).
Well, Freudian or not, people do tend to be attracted to people who resemble their opposite-sex parent. I know I'd love to find a boyfriend like my father, or else my older brother.

As for my story: I don't have a central idea for why I'm into bondage, but I have several possible theories. I have memories of watching movies as a small child, and whenever I saw people tied up I'd get a distinct pleasant feeling between my legs. I knew almost instinctively that this wasn't "right," and though I sometimes found myself seeking out that feeling, I was always a little ashamed of it. It's possible watching these movies sparked an interest, or reenforced something that was already there.

I do know that I had an erotic dream at a very young age - probably five or younger - which involved bondage. It gave me that feeling. Later, as an adolescent, I had another dream in which I was a sex slave, and upon awakening I felt an uncontrolable urge to reenact it. I don't know where the dreams came from, but the later one was what started me bringing my fantasies into the physical world.

Another thing that might have influenced my sexuality is the fact that I find comfort in enclosed spaces. I tend to sleep wrapped tightly in a blanket, sometimes wedged in a corner against the wall. I like the feeling of being wrapped up, which might have lead to my attraction to being tied up.

Other than that, there's no clear cause. It might just have been totally random.