Quote Originally Posted by softncomfy2
Hello,
i'm softncomfy2 i'm a subbie, who has recently dipped her toes into being Domme, it's not as easy as it looks! i could really use some help, its online, and its a Dom who has wanted to explore the sub side of things. i feel very honored that He would chose me to experiment with, but to be honest, i'm a bit lost as to how i should go about this. in person, would be different, but here.......... He is open to anything and says His only limits are mine. so, can anyone help this newly Dommed subbie out?

ps, i am new here, i know, you are so surprised, lol. i am canadian too, the friendly sort.
Welcome softncomfy2,

It is always hard to try something new, even more so when you are kinda going against your nature (submissive). But being online it is not impossible. Two thoughts here: Since the on-line is a Dominant (lifestyle or still cyber?) you are probably going to do more of what he wants than initiating things within yourself. This means he is probably going to top from the bottom. This is not necessarily bad, if you both are fine with it. So, since I think most on-line things are mostly play you two can go and enjoy yourself.
What I would do is to make a list with him of the things you two would like to try, remembering the limits of cyber interaction. If he still says he has no limits then find a list on-line and ask him to fill it out.
Then start slow and work mainly with mental things, humiliation, denial, etc...For sure work with orgasm delay and denial. Hard to do many physical things like CBT or waxing since you can't be there to make sure it is safe.
Also, make sure You are doing things You want to do or try (through negotiation of course). This way you are also getting something out of it and not just allowing him to work his submissive fantasy through you.

Good luck.
Have fun.
Again, Welcome.

SirW

p.s. If you wish more info feel free to PM me.