Hello sub17 and

I suspect that in order to change your avatar, and certainly before you can access most of the site you will need to reply to the email which has been automatically sent to you. If it is not sitting in your inbox it is worth checking your spam filter, and if it is not there, please use the account you registered with to send an email to admin.bdsm@gmail.com and all your problems, at least regarding registration with this site, should soon be over.

cariad